Privacy-First AI Girlfriend
A privacy-first AI girlfriendthat keeps your secrets.
A privacy-first AI girlfriend should let you decide where your conversations live and which model reads them. AgenticLover does. Keep chats on your device, run a local LLM, and use cloud sync only when you want it. We never sell your data.
Storage
Local or cloud. You pick.
You set a storage mode during setup and can change it any time from Privacy & Storage settings. Local mode is the tighter setup; cloud mode trades that for sync across devices.
Local mode
Switch to local storage and your personas, chats, memories, and vectors live in this browser’s IndexedDB. None of it is written to our servers.
Cloud mode
Pick cloud storage when you want history synced across devices and backed up. You can still bring your own model, and we never sell what you store.
Secrets stay out
API keys, refresh tokens, login state, and extension secrets are excluded from exports by default. A backup ZIP carries your content, not your credentials.
Bring your own model
Run the LLM on your own hardware.
The strongest version of a private AI girlfriend keeps inference off the cloud entirely. Point AgenticLover at a local model through Ollama or LM Studio and your prompts run on your own machine. All you need is a modern graphics card.
Pair a local model with local storage and your conversations and your inference both stay on the device. Prefer a hosted model? The catalog runs from Qwen 3.5 9B up to Kimi K2.6, and the choice is yours, not locked to one provider.
Settings show a warning when you use local storage with a remote model, since prompt content can be sent off-device in that case. No guessing about where your words go.
Ollama and LM Studio
Connect a model server you already run. Inference happens locally, so no prompt text leaves your network.
Not locked to one provider
Use a local model, a hosted model from the catalog, or your own third-party key. Switch whenever you want.
Take your data with you
Export a ZIP of personas, chats, memories, and extensions. Secrets are left out by default.
What data exists
What we hold, and where.
A privacy claim is only worth something if you can see the parts. Here is what AgenticLover handles and which way each piece goes when you set local or cloud mode.
We do not sell your conversations, files, or intimate usage data. Connected third-party services run under their own policies, and they only get involved when you switch them on.
Conversations
In local mode, durable chats and messages stay in IndexedDB on this device. In cloud mode they sync so you can pick up on another machine.
Personas and memories
Persona definitions, memories, and daily summaries follow the same rule as your chats. They go wherever you point your storage mode.
Connected tools
Extensions, toys, and smart-home devices only touch data when you enable them. What they can see depends on what you install and configure.
Account data
A cloud account exists to log you in and run the features you turn on. We do not sell your conversations, files, or intimate usage data.
No selling, no surprises
Your conversations are not for sale.
Most AI platforms want to own your data and your stack. AgenticLover is built the other way around. Use the defaults, bring your own services, or keep the whole thing local.
No data selling
What you say, store, and connect stays yours.
On-device option
Local mode keeps durable data in your browser, off our servers.
Your own model
Run a local LLM so inference never leaves your machine.
Questions
Private AI girlfriend, answered.
What makes this a privacy-first AI girlfriend?
AgenticLover lets you choose where your data lives and which model runs it. Local storage mode keeps conversations, personas, and memories in your browser’s IndexedDB instead of our servers, and you can run a local LLM so prompt content never leaves your machine. We do not sell user data.
Where are my conversations stored?
It depends on the storage mode you pick. In local mode, durable chats, memories, and vectors stay in this browser’s IndexedDB and never reach our servers. In cloud mode they sync so you can move between devices. You can switch modes from Privacy & Storage settings.
Can I run a private AI girlfriend with no cloud at all?
Mostly, yes. Use local storage mode and point the app at a local model through Ollama or LM Studio. Conversations stay on your device and inference runs on your own hardware. Device control for toys and e-stim already happens locally. A cloud account is only needed for sync and hosted models.
Do you sell my data or train on my chats?
No. We do not sell your conversations, files, or intimate usage data. Account and conversation data is used to operate the features you choose to turn on, nothing more.
What happens to my data if I connect a third-party service?
When you connect an external model provider, storage service, or extension, that service processes data under its own policy. If you want inference fully off-device, run a local model instead of a hosted one. The remote-LLM warning in settings flags when prompt content can leave your machine.
Can I export or delete everything?
Yes. You can export a ZIP archive of personas, conversations, memories, summaries, extensions, and settings, with secrets left out by default. Local mode has a clear-data action that permanently wipes durable data on the device.
This page is a readable product summary, not a substitute for the full privacy policy. Read the privacy page for the complete picture.
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